I
first met Ronnie 10 years ago at the City Hospital when Sister Jaqui
Gamble asked a group of regular patients suffering from COPD &
Lung disorders to form the Chest Help Group.
Through
the years Ronnie, MaryLee and I were actively involved in the group
and became known as the “3 musketeers”. In was often said that
Ronnie brought the stability to the group as MaryLee and I were
better known for our talking.
Ronnie
was our functions and fundraising co-ordinator, later taking on the
role of Treasurer. He was a constant source of ideas as well as the
funds that he obtained through generous donations, especially from
his own Family circle. He also maintained a tight grip on
spending, repeatedly refusing to let MaryLee & I go on a world
cruise that we felt would have been good for our
health.
Despite
the restrictions of his health, on behalf of the Group and Chest
Heart & Stroke, Ronnie also contributed to events such as
conferences and talks at meetings round the country, and also on
radio and TV. This was making people aware of the seriousness of our
illness’s and now the Health Service is finally funding a positive
action plan , province wide, to achieve better care for people with
Lung disability.
One
such event was the announcement of the Smoking ban by the Minister
Shaun Woodward, who personally insisted that Ronnie & I
accompany him to lunch and the Press Announcement. The Minister
& his retinue strode on ahead of us leaving Ronnie & I
panting to catch up, I can still remember the rapid click, click
click of Ronnie’s walking stick that day. When we came out we didn’t
know whether to order a taxi for home or an ambulance to take us to
the City Hospital
Ronnie
was frequently temporary resident in ward 8 of the City Hospital and
it was noticed at our fundraising stalls, the high regard the Nurses
and staff had for him. . They often said he was the perfect
gentleman and a special friend. He rarely complained and was a joy
to look after.
In the
past weeks Ronnie completed a 1,000 piece jigsaw puzzle which has
been framed and is now proudly hanging in ward 8 south patients day
room, which Ronnie & the group previously arranged for
furnishings to make the room less clinical and more
homely.
To His
wife Agnes and Family Lynn, Trevor and grandchildren Caprice,
Lor’ell and Zayne and his Family circle , on behalf of the group,
many of whom have joined us today, we extend our sincere sympathy.
We will all miss him, but wish to thank you for helping Ronnie so
much to share his time with us.
We all
have many moments & memories we will always
treasure.
He was
our dear, dear friend.
Kathleen
Aylward